More than any other month, December is when I remember why I chose to be in UST. I’ve been at the University for more than four years now, but the Thomasian brand of Christmas leaves me in awe every time. I’ve always loved seeing the campus filled with lights and the buzzing of students speculating about this year’s Paskuhan guests.

But festivities don’t do much to cover up the dread December brings. Before we hear our favorite bands and see the grand fireworks display, Thomasians must first survive finals week.

I’m no stranger to the heavy burden of academics, but the weight of finals week is a completely different pressure. Some days, I loathe the campus that I’ve always found beautiful — all because I’m anxious over some tests. By the end of finals period, I barely have the energy or motivation to celebrate the holidays.

Stress piled like presents under a tree

(Photo from The Holdovers (2023))

Holiday burnout isn’t a new phenomenon. Although the term was originally coined to refer to low motivation and stress in workplace settings, similar symptoms can manifest everywhere and in everyone. Holiday burnout, in particular, can stem from the increased pressure to have the perfect holiday.

A TomasinoWeb blog last year pointed out the commercialization of Christmas. On social media, holidays are often portrayed as a vibrant display of brands, products, and luxurious vacations. These sponsored holidays eclipse our individual experiences. Thus, we end up setting higher — sometimes unrealistic — expectations for our own celebrations.

Chasing perfection isn’t wrong per se. Still, it takes a toll on anyone attempting to make the most out of the season. When we focus on perfection, we lose sight of what Christmas really means. Sometimes, we end up sacrificing money, time, and enjoyment for the sake of a perfect Instagram post.

But even without this nagging pressure, the run-up to the year-end season is enough to drain anyone of energy. Our monthly roundups say it all: 2025 was a long one. I’ve spent all year watching political back-and-forths while juggling my senior year in college. Now, in December, I just want it all to be over. Maybe you feel the same.

Have yourself a merry little Christmas

(Photo from A Charlie Brown Christmas (1965))

By the end of finals week, Christmas can feel like an afterthought. After burying ourselves in academics, we find ourselves making last-minute attempts to buy gifts and plan an outfit. At worst, we make do with generic mugs for gifts — or make up an excuse to evade plans. Still, everyone deserves a good holiday season to cap off the year.

So I say, go and have yourself a merry little Christmas. For me, sprinkling in holiday cheer in my daily routine keeps me enthusiastic. While studying, I queue festive songs in my playlist. Sometimes, I watch my favorite Christmas movie in between exams. Finals are already stressful, so do yourself a favor and take meaningful breaks.

This year, give yourself the gift of grace. Take things one step at a time: Face finals week head-on, then recover enough to fully enjoy Christmas. Nothing has to be perfect – be it your scores or social media posts. No holiday should be so taxing; instead, the holiday cheer should tide you gently into the next year.