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Best On-Screen Dads that Rightfully Deserve Celebrations of Love and Pride

We rounded up a list of the best dads in film and TV who proudly accept their children in whatever way they choose to love and accept themselves. 



Father’s Day celebrates fathers who champion a loving and supportive environment for their families, especially to their children who⁠—either openly or secretly⁠—identify themselves as members of the LGBTQ+ community. As a celebration of both events, we rounded up a list of the best dads in film and TV who proudly accept their children in whatever way they choose to love and accept themselves. 

1. LGBT+ ally Brian Hawkins in Tales of the City

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The television adaptation of Armistead Maupin’s novel, Tales of the City (2019), generally encompasses the theme of sexuality and gender which brought considerable changes to media and its portrayal of the LGBTQ+ community during the 70s up until today. With its 2019 miniseries, new characters painted in more vivid colors were introduced as a representation of the big and diverse community of the LGBTQ. Brian Hawkins is easily one of the laudable characters, especially in the father category, as he supports and loves Shawna for who she is and who she loves, and grows with the rainbow family formed in Barbary Lane. 

2. Eric’s father in Sex Education

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Eric’s dad is shadowed and riddled with fear, especially when Eric has openly changed the way he dressed to comfortably fit his sexuality as a gay person. His fear comes from an understandable place as Sex Education (2019) tells the stories and struggles of the LGBTQ+ community⁠—one of the progressive themes the show has illuminated in its two seasons. Eric’s dad comes off with a silent antagonism whenever Eric would express himself because he was afraid that Eric would be hurt, as most parents with gay children tend to be. However, he soon comes to understand that as his fear and his knowledge of the cruel world is valid, his son’s fearless bravery weighs more. 

3. “Perfect American dad” Jack Sprier in Love, Simon

Screengrab from Netflix

Love, Simon (2018) is another addition to Hollywood’s list of never-ending romantic comedies. This movie, however, stands as a good odd thumb as it centers on Simon’s struggle of acceptance and openness about his sexuality and is the first of rom-com movies addressing LGBTQ+ themes supported by a mainstream media company. The moment when Jack approaches Simon after he was outed in school is easily one of the most heartfelt scenes in the movie. This revolved around Jack’s confession of regret in failing to recognize his son’s identity sooner and assurance of his unconditional love⁠—an exchange which most LGBTQ+ children yearn for as they think of the day when they too can become open to their true emotions. 

4. Callie’s dad in Grey’s Anatomy

Photo from Grey’s Anatomy Universe Wiki

Carlos Torres, Callie’s father, represents all religious parents who find it difficult to see that homosexuality has anything to do with love and acceptance. As a devout Catholic and a conservative man, he believes that her daughter coming out as a lesbian shuns away from the teachings of the Bible. After heated arguments using the Bible, he comes to the conclusion that Jesus’ commandment of love should be the blueprint of acceptance. And with Callie’s girlfriend telling her coming out story, Carlos slowly loves and accepts Callie as she is. 

5. Ardent Gorio in Bekikang

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The gay-centric film which retells the story of the late director Wenn V. Deramas makes being a member of the LGBTQ+ community in the Philippines more bearable, especially with the presence of Beki’s father in the story. As the movie pans along with Beki being bullied, we see Gorio telling our heroic character to defend himself through martial arts not because he wants to see his son become more manly, but because he understands that the discrimination on gay people is a cruel reality that they should learn to confront even if it means getting physically hurt. Gorio is altogether on a different plane from the usual Filipino parents with knee jerk reactions of changing their children’s sexuality which is prominent in a country that prides itself on conservative beliefs. Nonetheless, he is the blueprint that reminds parents of gay children that love thrives in its unconditionality. 

June is the month to celebrate Pride and Father’s Day. Somewhere in this plane of existence, people who identify themselves as members of the LGBTQ+ community would rather shy away from celebrating the latter as most parents, mostly fathers, find it hard to accept their child’s sexuality as it is often deemed unacceptable in a patriarchal society. Moreover, the familial discrimination that forms a stretching gap makes most father-child relationships more complicated and irreparable. These depictions of supportive fathers that celebrate the umbrella of sexualities differing from reality would arguably serve as either comfort to the unrest or distraught to some. But what these pieces of art⁠—however bravely naive⁠—show is that there is hope for a love that can overpower toxic and fragile masculinity. 



Thomasian musicians to add to your playlist

With all the new takes on OPM, let’s not forget about our fellow Thomasians who are persevering to let their craft be known in the mainstream media. Support local, support Thomasian artists.



The rise of Spotify, Apple Music, SoundCloud, and other music-streaming platforms paved the way for more artists to share their craft with a broader audience. It is now easier to promote your material through social media, while people can seamlessly listen to your music through different audio platforms on-demand without splurging too much cash. A basic subscription plan lets anyone stream all the music they want and play your songs on repeat. With this boom in the music industry through technological advancements, artists are inspired, now more than ever, to produce more music and give sick beats to avid listeners.

Here is a shortlist of Thomasian musicians you can stream on your music platforms.

1. Al James

(Photo courtesy of Jilson Tiu)

Before he was front and center in most gigs and before his music was blasted through the speakers of bars, Alvin James Manlutac, famously known as Al James, also sat in the rooms of Beato as a student under the College of Fine Arts and Design. In launching his first hit, he also doubted himself because he knew his style did not follow hip-hop norms. But fast-forward to today, his crafts are among the most famous songs played in the nightlife scene, as well as in casual get-togethers with your friends.

Manlutac permeated the fine line between underground and mainstream when he released his song ‘Pahinga,’ gaining more than 7.3 million views since its release three years ago.

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2. Migo Señires

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Like Al James, Migo Señires also spent his college days in Beato, studying Advertising Arts in the College of Fine Arts and Design. They are both a part of the Baryo Berde crew, a multi-talent collective that fixates on culture and art. 

Señires released his song, Kara,which garnered more than 141,000 views since it was posted on his channel. He claims that he wrote it for the younger people who forgot their roots and the older ones who get frustrated when they can’t keep up with modern times. 

3. Schumi

(Screengrab from YouTube/Schumi)

When he is not walking around the halls of Ruaño, he may be singing center stage. Albert Guallar, famously known as Schumi, has been catching ears in the local hip-hop scene. He first started producing music and uploading it to SoundCloud, which then garnered the attention of people who had an interest in hip-hop. In an interview with TomasinoWeb, he said that his Schumi persona — writing music and such, is his gateway to express his emotions. It was an effective venue to vent out feelings of heartbreak and sadness, which, in this instance, was his breakup with his girlfriend. 

Schumi’s hit song ‘Bakit Why Not’ talks about breaking norms and protesting against some stereotypes like gender roles. Its music video has amassed more than 10 thousand views within two months of its release.



4. Himig Borhuh

(Photo from Himig Borhuh’s official Soundcloud)

From walking around the halls of the Albertus Magnus to being in the spotlight of #USTPaskuhan, Himig Austin Borja, a Music Technology student from the Conservatory of Music, has been making a name for himself. In an interview with UST Tiger TV, he said that he didn’t really envision himself to major in music since he was inclined to sports and was a basketball varsity player during his high school years. He also did not expect his hit song, ‘Watawat,’ to become well-known and was surprised that lines from his song became widespread after its release.

Himig Borja’s ‘Watawat,’ featuring Schumi, was a song that garnered attention during the last UAAP season. The line ‘ang medalya at korona ibalik na sa España,’ reflected the community’s yearning to secure another championship and showed the support Thomasians have for all our sports teams as well as the pride we have for our school. 

5.  Adrian Aggabao

(Photo from Adrian Aggabao’s official Instagram account)

Adrian Aggabao, popularly known as ‘Don Bao,’ is a Raymund’s local from the College of Commerce and Business Administration. Like Schumi, his music career also began when he started publishing his music on SoundCloud. Since then, he has secured multiple gigs during his downtime. Most of his music speaks about social realities and what’s nice about it is that he has his family as his inspiration. 

Don Bao’s song ‘Pasanin’ emphasizes on the lessons that a life filled with struggles and obstacles brings. Having dropped this first video on his Youtube channel about a year ago, it has garnered more than 2.3 thousand views. 

6. BarbaCola

(Photo from BarbaCola’s official Facebook page)

From UST Musikat’s band pool, the band BarbaCola was formed with Renz Jerique from the Faculty of Arts and Letters on vocals, Raja Rayas from the College of Education on bass, Cedrick Santa Cruz from the Faculty of Engineering on lead guitar, and Raemonn Petr on drums.

BarbaCola’s song ‘Senseless’ runs along with the themes of alternative and indie genres, mainly focusing on the ups and downs of love and how it is a war that one might not survive.

7. VFade

(Photo from Patrick Valentine Cabanayan’s official Facebook account)

Patrick Valentine Cabanayan, more commonly known as VFade, hails from the College of Science under the Department of Mathematics. In an interview with UST Tiger TV, he stated that his interest in music developed when he was in Senior High School, specifically during an apprenticeship under the Music, Arts, and Design track. He tried out music production and also ventured into rapping. 

His song ‘Andito Lang Ako’ expresses love and affection for a significant other. The song itself embodies the wide array of emotions one might feel when in love and how some minute details in the world seem brighter in the presence of strong feelings of attraction.

8. OMEN, Carty and Ballen

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All coming from the same Advertising Arts class in the College of Fine Arts and Design, third year students OMEN (Ron Flores), Carty (Zack Garcia), and Ballen (Allen Agulay) recently made their brainchild available to the public. The trio, who consider themselves brothers from another mother, has collaborated to release a new song entitled ‘Karma Comeback.’

As a collective, they claim that they made the song ‘Karma Comeback’ for fun since quarantine made it hard for them to bond and share their sentiments. By collaborating, they delved into their passion, music, art, and dumb sh*t, as they say.

Thomasians have always been present in every field, more prominently in the music industry. Their growth as artists and musicians will be exponential if we continue to support them and their work. With all the new takes on OPM, let’s not forget about our fellow Thomasians who are persevering to let their craft be known in the mainstream media. Support local, support Thomasian artists. 


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How to apply clown makeup

Did you know that circus clowns make $60,000 a year while you’re out here doing it for free?



(Artwork by Patricia Jardin/TomasinoWeb)

When Miles Edgeworth said, “You are not the clown. You are the entire circus,” I felt that.

Did you know that circus clowns make $60,000 a year while you’re out here doing it for free? It’s the first day of April and what better way to commemorate this annual holiday than putting on your best clown makeup! From McDonalds to your local emoji, we’re here to help you channel that inner Boo Boo the Fool in you. 

First, make sure your skin is prepped nice and clean. Bold assumptions and hasty generalizations usually make a good base. These tend to last longer because you refuse to take them off. You can use your two fingers, a sponge, or your foolish thoughts to apply it evenly. 

Now it’s time to build on those assumptions and paint your canvas. Start off by carving out spaces on your eyes and mouth where you will be applying the colors. Depending on your preference, you can choose to paint the eye with the same color or two different colors. When deciding which color, be quick and impulsive. Then, remember to paint it with inconsistency just like your thoughts and words. 

The cheeks and mouth will be red. Luckily, there are a variety of rouge shades in clown makeup. We recommend using the palette “Red Flags,” which you can get for free when you use the code “NOLABELS” or “CAN’TCOMMIT” at checkout. Color in your cheeks with a soft red color, perhaps in the shade “Here for a good time, not a long time” or “Only talk about themselves but never ask about you.” Don’t spend so much time blending because the key here is completely ignoring it.

The mouth is the highlight of clown makeup. Our tip is to overline your lips to the degree you overthink. You can then go ahead and color it in, but this time with a more intense shade of red. The shades “Entitled,” “Manipulative,” and “Caught cheating in 4K” are the most tolerated in the clown community. 

Accentuate the details of your look by making outlines around your eyes and mouth. Again, depending on the look you’re going for, you can make the outline as thin as your chances with that person you’re simping over or as thick as your audacity to get back with your ex after getting off a 3-hour phone call with your best friend who clearly told you not to. 

Of course, we can’t forget about the cherry on top and the crowning glory of clowns: the wig. There’s a wide variety of colors you can choose from but select a wig that will fit your head and perfectly cover up all your tomfoolery, bamboozlement, and wishful thinking. 

If you have cash to spare, throw in a costume and some oversized shoes that will help you jump into conclusions better. Don’t forget to pop on a red nose and voilà! The circus is complete. 

The art of clownery is one that is hard to master, yet the community keeps growing. And that speaks volumes. Clowning isn’t just a coping mechanism, it’s a cultural reset, a lifestyle, a reason to breathe, and an escape from this cruel world. 

Most importantly, it’s harmless because the only person you’re fooling is yourself. Happy April Fools‘!

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